For those of us who are overworked and over-whelmed, and who isn’t, finding time to be together with our special person may be a bit unrealistic.  Something I read the other day says we should come up with a list of things we can do 3 times a day with or to our partner in less than 60 seconds.  They called them “pleasure points”.  Telling a joke, one long kiss etc.  Scheduling time to reconnect can be a hassle and unrealistic.  Any pleasure points ideas work for you?