December 21st is Winter Solstice — the first
day of winter and the shortest day of the year. Celebrated by cultures
across the globe for more than 6,000 years, it signifies the return of
light and with it, life.
At age 23, having just returned
home from a three-month stint living abroad in Russia, New York-based
Monique Peterson found herself overwhelmed with the neon marketing and
disgusted by the “buy, buy, buy” mentality of the holidays. Peterson
decided to celebrate Winter Solstice by taking a hike with loved ones
and reflecting in gratitude for everything she already had, instead of
focusing on the need for more. Sixteen years later, she continues her
December tradition.
For those willing to think outside the big
box store, Winter Solstice celebrations are a meaningful way to gather
with friends and honor the true spirit of the season. Here’s our guide
to get you started:
Sunrise, Sunset
What’s the difference between any standard holiday party and a
meaningful Winter Solstice gathering? “Setting an intention,” says
Donna Henes, author of Celestially Auspicious Occasions: Seasons, Cycles, and Celebrations. “It’s about going to the source of our holiday celebrations — what does this day really mean to us?”
On the eve of your celebration, start the night off by watching the
first winter sunset. “We have forgotten some of the simplicity of
living, and seasonal rituals bring us to a simpler time in life,” says
Joyce Arnowitz, an intuitive consultant and counselor in San Rafael,
California, who has organized solstice events for over seventeen years.
For six days during the Summer and Winter Solstice, the sun rises and
sets in visibly the same location, whereas the rest of the year it
moves across the sky from day to day. Watch the sun set on the shortest
day of the year, and welcome the return of longer and longer days until
summer.
Lighten Up
Use
candles to illuminate your home, recalling a time when sun and fire
were the only sources of light. Decorate with found items from nature,
such as evergreen and felled pinecones. A small rosemary plant, used in
early solstice celebrations as an “herb of the sun,” could make a nice
parting gift.
Solstice celebrations don’t need to be
complicated, overly serious affairs; a solstice ritual can be as
relaxed and simple as sharing a potluck meal and having your guests
share a funny story from the previous year. For a more dramatic touch,
ask guests to make a wish for the upcoming year while lighting a single
candle. With each wish, the room grows brighter — a symbol of the light
returning.
Eat, Drink and Be Merry
As for what to serve, think rustic simplicity showcasing local,
seasonal ingredients, like root vegetable gratins, hearty bean stews
and squash or sweet potato ravioli.
Build a bonfire and sing
drinking songs with a mug of wassail (recipe at right) around the
blaze. For city-dwellers whose tighter quarters are fire-unfriendly,
download a campier version of the real thing for your desktop by
Googling “fireplace screensaver.”
Playing it Solo
You don’t need to stage a shindig to create a special day. Richard Heinberg, author of Celebrate the Solstice,
recommends going on an energy fast by lighting candles and spending the
day without television, cell phones, computers or other non-essential
appliances. Write letters to loved ones. Set intentions for the
upcoming year.
What To Read
Celebrate the Solstice: Honoring the Earth’s Seasonal Rhythms through Festival and Ceremony by Richard Heinberg (The Theosophical Publishing House)
Celestially Auspicious Occasions: Seasons, Cycles, and Celebrations by Donna Henes (Perigee Putnam/Penguin)
Solstice Evergreen: The History, Folklore and Origins of the Christmas Tree by Sheryl Ann Karas (Aslan Publishing)