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Peaceful Simplicity
Posted by horsewoman on August 24, 2007 - 6:22pm.
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This fantastic quote summarizes something that I’ve been trying to focus on recently in my daily life:

“Whatever the tasks, do them slowly
with ease,
in mindfulness,
so not do any tasks with the goal
of getting them over with.
Resolve to each job in a relaxed way,
with all your attention.”

- Thich Nhat Hanh, Zen Master

In our daily lives, we often rush through tasks, trying to get them done, trying to finish as much as we can each day, speeding along in our cars to our next destination, rushing to do what we need to do there, and then leaving so that we can speed to our next destination.

Unfortunately, it’s often not until we get to our final destination that we realize what madness this all is.

At the end of the day, we’re often exhausted and stressed out from the grind and the chaos and the busy-ness of the day. We don’t have time for what’s important to us, for what we really want to be doing, for spending time with loved ones, for doing things we’re passionate about.

And yet, it doesn’t have to be that way. It’s possible to live a simpler life, one where you enjoy each activity, where you are present in everything (or most things) you do, where you are content rather than rushing to finish things.

If that appeals to you, lhere's a few suggestions for living a simple, peaceful, content life:

  1. What’s important. First, take a step back and think about what’s important to you. What do you really want to be doing, who do you want to spend your time with, what do you want to accomplish with your work? Make a short list of 4-5 things for your life, 4-5 people you want to spend time with, 4-5 things you’d like to accomplish at work.
  2. Examine your commitments. A big part of the problem is that our lives are way too full. We can’t possibly do everything we have committed to doing, and we certainly can’t enjoy it if we’re trying to do everything. Accept that you can’t do everything, know that you want to do what’s important to you, and try to eliminate the commitments that aren’t as important.
  3. Create time for solitude. In addition to slowing down and enjoying the tasks we do, and doing less of them, it’s also important to just have some time to yourself.
  4. Do nothing. Sometimes, it’s good to forget about doing things, and do nothing.
  5. Sprinkle simple pleasures throughout your day. Knowing what your simple pleasures are, and putting a few of them in each day, can go a long way to making life more enjoyable.
  6. Practice being present. You can practice being in the moment at any time during the day.



<em>dancingqueen</em>'s picture
food for thought
by dancingqueen on August 25, 2007 - 1:13pm
I practiced with a teacher who taught mindfulness awhile back.  Her teacher was Kon Kabat-Zinn.  Believe it or not, it is very difficult to practice on an everyday basis and I really have to think about it.  I think examining what is important is SO key.  We need to make that a priority and go forward.  Your poems have really given me food for thought.  Thank  you.
<em>founderofinfogatherer</em>'s picture
Well said
by founderofinfoga... on August 26, 2007 - 7:11pm

You are right: take the moment and the present.

 

I believe tough that for a few, if you have to spread changement in what is unbalanced and do it in a timely and powerful way on this plane (even some others) , you have got to regain those cosmic skills then you can go Zen.

 

For me, I use that concept BUT must do sometimes action as it is necessary to help others. It is all a Yin/Yang thing or Inyo if you wish...

 

Pascal Gillon BASc

Founder

infogatherer.com 


<em>Dupps</em>'s picture
So True
by Dupps on August 27, 2007 - 3:13pm
This is how I try to live each day, it is very hard though!
<em>Vicki_R</em>'s picture
enjoying
by Vicki_R on August 27, 2007 - 7:12pm
This year I am going to try and reexamine what is really important to me and why.  We try and do everything and say yes to please people, but we wind up displeasing ourselves.  I want to be able to be present and fully enjoy what I am doing.
<em>Hexenmeister</em>'s picture
Walden
by Hexenmeister on September 8, 2007 - 9:38am

I have been reading Walden, by Henry David Thoreau, lately and was struck by a couple of passages from chpater 2.

I went to the woods because I wished to live deliberately, to front only the essential facts of life, and see if I could not learn what it had to teach, and not, when I came to die, discover that I had not lived. I did not wish to live what was not life, living is so dear; nor did I wish to practise resignation, unless it was quite necessary. I wanted to live deep and suck out all the marrow of life, to live so sturdily and Spartan-like as to put to rout all that was not life, to cut a broad swath and shave close, to drive life into a corner, and reduce it to its lowest terms[...]

Our life is frittered away by detail. An honest man has hardly need to count more than his ten fingers, or in extreme cases he may add his ten toes, and lump the rest. Simplicity, simplicity, simplicity! I say, let your affairs be as two or three, and not a hundred or a thousand; instead of a million count half a dozen, and keep your accounts on your thumb-nail.

I have tried to move towards these ideas aver the past few months.  I've stopped buying needless "things" that only serve to give me things to dust.  I have been, bit by bit, ridding myself of things that just sit in the closet and take up space.  I give them to the DI so that someone who needs them can have them.  My room has since felt more free, lighter, if you will.  It is nice to life life less burdened by the material.


<em>Vicki_R</em>'s picture
excess baggage
by Vicki_R on September 8, 2007 - 4:04pm
Lightening the load would be wonderful, but I would not even know where to begin.  Does cleaning out my  closets count?  I guess getting rid of excess baggage in every form would be a good place to begin, people included.

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