My husband and I rub each others feet sometimes at night to relax and reconnect.  It's only for a few minutes, but it lets us take time to help make the other feel good and it also relieves stress from the day.

It's the little things that keep people together.  I love that idea about rubbing feet.  At night, I cuddle with my husband and my kids on the bed before bathtime and my  boys love it.  We come together as a family and it shows them that mommy and daddy still care for one another and are affectionate.

Yea I think the whole massaging feet idea is great too. I wouldn't try that with anyone yet because I've not had a serious relationship like that yet.

I've tried other things, for example, as crazy as it may seem ,doing work together might be a great way to get things done and spend a little time together.

 When I first went into tutoring I started partially dating one of the teachers I helped and then even after I stopped tutoring, we hardly ever saw each other due to our hectic schedules so we started helping each other with our work. I would go in the weekends and grade papers while he made lesson plans and prepare and we would spend a lot of time together chit chatting here and there.

Being in a relationship is hard enough so it's so important to try and find any time to be together.  I kinda like the idea of sneaking 60 seconds of pleasure into the day.  It's kinda naughty.

Kissing always helps me.  I tender kiss is sometimes better than the act itself.  When was the last time you had a really good kiss?

My bf and I make it a point to kiss and hug when we get home. Sounds kinda corny but it helps when you're trying to leave your work day at work.

Just think how great a long hug is at the end of a stressful day.  I guess I'm corny too then, because my husband and I try and do that once a day.

I just read an article that called for a game where each person gets a turn  having the stone.  When you have this stone, you can tell your partner to do whatever it is you want on the spot.  The partner has to have a really good reason not to do what you request.  It is supposed to reconnect you together.  Add some spice to your life.

 

During the week with our different travel schedules, and work hours it hard to have that time.  We do the Saturday night bath were we soak in the tub and shampoo each others hair. Then when we are in bed we cuddle and talk about everything and we kiss. When my sons were small we did family sleep on the weekends. We put the boys in bed between us and cuddled around them.

That hair thing is a very special thing for lack of a better word.  I always see it on tv in movies and it seems very erotic.  I have tried to get my husband to do it and occasionally he will.  It really relaxes me.  Maybe that is why I love going to the hairdresser so much!!!