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Do You Believe in Resolutions?
Posted by Su Avasthi on January 1, 2007 - 6:09am.

Share your New Year's Resolution.  

It's that time of year again.

After a indulging in all manner of holiday buffets, Christmas cookies and cups of eggnog, all of us have the opportunity to make amends by resolving to eat healthier in coming year.

Or to make up for maxing out our credit cards, we resolve to trim the fat. After draping Christmas lights around the house (and feeling really guilty about it), we might resolve to turn off the lights when we leave a room.

These aren't bad resolutions, of course. But a lot of us are cynical about them because they never seem to stick. Despite the failure rate, I usually give it a shot, even though most of us learned long ago that New Year's resolutions are a tricky business.

Whenever I've resolved to make sweeping changes in my life, I have found that sheer force of will is never powerful enough to do the trick. Then, because I am failing, I forget my good intentions and they fall by the wayside, forgotten or ignored.

Nonetheless, I like the idea of starting the new year with good intentions. So over the years, I've developed a New Year's strategy: Keep the resolutions small and manageable.

For instance, a good resolution for me would be to drink more water. A bad resolution would be to attempt to summit Mt. Everest this year, or even go to the gym every single day. I see no reason to set myself to fail.

Resolving to put aside some spare change for a good cause sounds more plausible than resolving to adopt an African child. Resolving to recycle office paper is one thing; resolving to build a wind turbine so I can live off the grid is quite another.

Admittedly, I'm willing to set the bar pretty low, and that's a bit embarrassing. But it's better than starting the new year knowing that defeat is certain and imminent.

Besides, 2007 looks a lot brighter when I know I can keep a few small promises that I make to myself.



<em>founderofinfogatherer</em>'s picture
The hardest step is...to start it!
by founderofinfoga... on December 29, 2006 - 12:48pm

I agree that New Years resolutions can become a "habit" which lasts a few weeks and that is it.

 

So, should we do it?

 

I KNOW that we could speak about it for a while, but logic (usually) always prevails: i.e The sun shines, water is wet...bla...bla...bla...those are facts.

 

New Year's Resolutions are a way to better your life even of others because... (here is the fact)... an action equals reaction...so...Feelings and actions  are like a boomerang: it goes away far from you when you throw it but comes back with tremendous momentum. So, throw positive and positive will come back 10 times fold!

 

Be it a resolution to look after yourself, or/and others more, to respect more the environment etc...whatever it is you do choose, as long it betters you even other things, it is worth it because, more you stick to it, more momentum it does build, and more positive results it will come back as...That is it...

 

 


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thankfulness and appreciation
by omshanti on January 1, 2007 - 1:24pm

I agree.

my resolutions are about compassion and gratitude for what we do have... in a world of so much war and destruction, every little bit of generosity and kindness helps to change our own personal world despite the darkness around us.

Namaste


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