My dentist called me yesterday to reschedule my appointment. As it
turns out, he is closing his office one day a week due to the economy.
I was surprised — even my dentist in his glamorous West Los Angeles
office has been impacted by the current economy. The bottom line is
this: the economy sucks. It has impacted all of us.
What are
people doing? Most people are asking the wrong question. "When the
economy is going to turn around? When is unemployment going to stop
escalating? When is consumer confidence going to improve?" When,
when, when...
Asking "When?" is the wrong question. "When"
focuses our attention on external circumstances. And we have
absolutely no control over external circumstance. We individually cannot change the economy.
So, what are the options?
The best
solution is to place your attention and focus on what you do have
control over. You have control over your response to the external
circumstances. You have control over your response to the economy.
"The
issue is not the issue. How you relate to the issue is the issue," is
what Ron and Mary Hulnick eloquently teach in their Master's in
Spiritual Psychology program at The University of Santa Monica.
The
economy is not the issue. How you respond to the economy is the real
issue. Your response is the only thing you have control over. And by
focusing on what you have control over, you live a much more empowered
and fulfilling life. This is a huge component of reducing pain and
suffering.
There are four essential dimensions to your response:
1. Inside You
What
does the state of the economy mean to you? We all make meaning and
interpret the world around us. The way in which you interpret the
economy will dramatically effect you. You can interpret these
circumstances as an opportunity to learn, grow, and strengthen. An
opportunity for your human spirit to rise to the occasion, realizing
that we are better off than many less fortunate on the planet. Or you
can make it mean disaster and devastation.
One trick to
direct the focus of your meaning-making machine (your mind) is through
the questions you ask yourself. "When is the economy going to turn
around?" will create a very different focus than, "How can I serve more,
deeper, and better in these times?" And your focus will lead you to
take (or not take) actions.
2. Outside You
What are you
going to do? Where will you place your body? How will you manage your
energy? Is it time to deepen your physical practices (yoga, strength
training, cardio) to enliven you? What improvements could you make
with your eating habits?
3. Your Community
Just as you
make meaning of events and circumstances, so does the culture — both the
culture at large and your own personal community. Your participation
in your community will create, promote, or allow the community to
interpret and respond. What will you do to wield your influence for
the good? Sometimes, it may mean choosing not to participate. Other
times it may mean getting more involved. With the culture at large, do
your best to insulate yourself from messages that would encourage a
focus on the negative.
4. Your Systems
What systems do
you need to shift or change to adapt? There is a lot
of peace to be gained through clarity. (So much so that my wife, Jennifer Miller,
actually uses that as the tag line for her business, "Creating peace
through clarity around finances using Quicken®.") What systems
are being called for to create more clarity in your life? Do you need
to create a solid plan? A plan is a system that you can use to measure
your progress — it creates peace by removing the vagueness of
living in the unknown. Is it time for a spending plan? (Doesn't that
sound better than budget?) Or is it time for an earning plan?
(For those of you that are fans of Ken Wilber's Integral Theory, you will notice that these are the four quadrants.)
Let us know what you are uncovering in your exploration by leaving a comment below!
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I choose to view and accept this change in our economic climate as a positive opportunity to realize that the true source of MY abundance is from a higher thought than commonly assumed in this material world. I choose to accept the infinite abundance of a loving universe which is, was, and always will be more than sufficient for my needs.
I focus on gratitude for what I have, and live from a sense of magnanimity in compassionately sharing in cooperation and colaboration rather than competition and fear of scarcity.
Hi Sunnjay,
I really like your "meaning making" and perspective... It reminds me of the "40 Day Prosperity Plan" from The Abundance Book by John Randolph Price.
Let me know how it goes with inquiring about the other three demensions...